A poor widow had a son. That boy was very handsome and talented. The widow mother raised the boy by choosing Ghutiya or working in someone else’s house. In those days, boys and girls used to get married in the young age. So seeing the introduction of the form and quality of the boy, a rich man of that area got his only daughter married to that boy. This was the condition of marriage that the boy will remain as son-in-law. The sad mother remained sad_ the only feeling from her was that now her son will be able to eat good dishes! Because she never was able to feed her son by cooking good dishes_ she used to feed her own rice khichdi everyday!
After marriage, the boy went to his in-laws house for the first time. New son-in-law has come home, mother-in-law’s happiness is no more! Son-in-law king will stay in the house so he started making different dishes for his son-in-law before evening. The whole house was absolutely mah-mahing with the smell of beautiful dishes!!
After a few night, a call for food! Dung picker’s boy along with rich father in law and other member of the house, sitting together today_ he was enjoying it too! Amidst that joy, he was also missing his sad mother.
Food was being served! Mother-in-law was feeding her son-in-law with great pampering herself. But he saw, whatever food was being served in son-in-law’s plate, he was quickly wiping the food and eating it. It was even better to see it!
Now in the last stage of food, as soon as mother-in-law extended his hand to give some kheer, the boy said “Hun Hun Hun- No, don’t give! This is what I eat every day! “This thing spoke up! Everyone there was a little surprised to see the behaviour of the son-in-law, but the mind was satisfied thinking that _ the mother of the son- in-law may be poor, but she feeds her son by making kheer everyday!
Whatever it is, that boy’s suddenly behaviour was scared of this man-in-law’s hand, trembled in removing it from the top of the plate and unknowingly two-four drops of kheer fell into the plate! The fragrance of pudding made from fragrant rice started spreading around. Curiosity the boy tasted that two-four drops of fallen pudding. Wow ! What a delicious and aromatic pudding! He had never eaten this! Their poor mother never cooked this kind of aromatic delicious food!
He started regretting thinking about it _ why did he refuse to give such a good tasty pudding! Now I can’t even ask with shame! So fragrant that taste_ must try it! So what to do now? Mind he mind he made a plan ” ok ! At night when everyone is sleeping deeply then the kitchen will go and eat! ” As the night came, all the family members went to sleep after turning off the lights. And his underage woman also fell asleep seeing that the boy woke up quietly and went straight to the kitchen! There in so many pots in the dark, he couldn’t understand which handi has that delicious pudding! He was hitting in it sometimes in the dark and sometimes in it. All the clothes were black but still the son-in-law Kheer was being searched. While doing this in the dark, kept it in a high place. As soon as I touched the bronze utensil, all the utensils fell down. Everyone in the house slept due to the sound of pots falling! Everyone thought maybe a thief entered the kitchen! Yes ! Some thief is in! Everyone see the kitchen door is open! The thief is inside! The thief who was wearing black hands, mouth and clothes was beaten up by everyone! When the newly married girl wakes up from the sound of noise, she saw on her bed that her husband is not there! So she came out crying then the thief was brought in front of the light _ then everyone was surprised to see the thief! “Hey! Hi Ram! He is not a thief! He is the son-in-law king of his own house! ” What a shame! Then everyone together started serving the son-in-law King! As soon as son-in-law handled a little, everyone had the same question in their mouth “Son life, what were you doing in the kitchen so late at night??
The new son-in-law was absolutely embarrassed to be caught in this manner so he could not hide the truth. He said he liked it after eating two or four drops of delicious pudding, so he did it with the greed of eating more! And this is the riot!
After ending the story, Guru Maharaj should say to everyone present there_ “A boy who chooses the ghutiya tastes two-four drops of kheer, the taste of bliss when a man gets it_ then no shame, fear etc works _ A strange passion, a different indifference I’m so happy. Does, and he just keeps moving forward with the purpose of fulfilling his goal!
In the first stage, the boy considers Kheer as ‘Own Khichdi’! Similarly, in the spiritual world, when a great man comes to give the taste of bliss to the ordinary man__then in the first stage man thinks _ “What else will it be! This is how I enjoy everyday! But when Sadguru (Kahani’s mother-in-law) blesses, he tastes the taste of Bhumanand_ then the sadhak starts saying_ “What is this !! What is this !! Never got it like this !! “The search begins” where do I find them!! “
In this situation, the saint’s shame, hatred, the fear of the community, the fear of caste, insult _ the saint runs away throwing everything in search of the store of joy (kheer ka handi in the story). After attaining bliss, the seeker understands the difference between Vishyaanand and Bhumanand !! The introvert seeker’s all aspirations of sensual pleasure gets inferior, by being immersed with an unearthful pleasure, the life of the seeker turns into a great life!!
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Story of Swami Parmanand ji. Compilator Sridhar Banerjee ‘Story Context’ [Translated by Sudhir Sharma, a former student of Bangaram Paramananda Mission]।